Sometimes a big cake isn’t about birthdays or graduations or weddings. Sometimes it’s about surviving — and celebrating life.
Sometimes your best friend joins you for an arts and crafts project. You have so much fun you almost forget that you are stringing Beads of Courage. But you never forget that your friend stood by you, even when you were the sickest you have ever been in your whole life.
Sometimes the doctor who helped you beat back your cancer has other talents you never knew about.
Sometimes you don’t feel that great on the day of the party but you come anyway. It’s how you say to your cancer, “I will not let you stop me and I will be back again for next year’s party without this mask and IV pole!”
Sometimes the child life specialist who patiently explained scary stuff to you and made you laugh, even when you were hurting, gets a chance to sign your “autograph hound” for graduation.
Sometimes a whole room of people who don’t really know each other feel united by a shared, and very joyful, milestone. One more year, and my child is still here.
Sometimes even a kid who is fighting cancer will fight for a piece of cake before it is served.
Sometimes she’ll get it. And sometimes, she’ll even get seconds.
Photos and memories from the Sunday, June 5 Cancer Survivors Day event I attended at Cardon Children’s Medical Center with RAK health editor and multimedia journalist Vicki Balint.